I am so very sorry for your loss. I believe people just don’t know what to say or do in most cases but it is so very hurtful to those of us who are in such pain from our losses and need the support more than ever. I have a few people in my life with whom I can share my grief but it was not easy getting to this point. I find those who are the best at helping the bereaved are those who are going through it themselves. Sending you hugs.