Been thinking about the topic of our love not dying when our person does. I was glad to find other references to this online. It helps me to make sense of and find ways to articulate the complicated ways I feel, approaching the one year mark. It is a relief to realize that I get to keep loving him! That I don't have to pack that away or donate it to thrift. I get to take him with me going forward through the grief but not "moving on" .
Julien, There is a TED talk about this, have you seen it? This is it on U-Tube: Cinema Modeoff We don't "move on" from grief. We move forward with it | Nora McInerny
