Lou,
I think you've come such a long way to have wanted to sit in the same exact spot at the bar with Tom and Ann, overlooking the ocean, where you and Linda once enjoyed a night out. Reading this made me smile. I hope someday I'll be do this too.
I'm glad that before Tom and Ann leave, the three of you will be able to go to some more restaurants, enjoy delicious dinners and great conversations, a perfect way to spend evenings with friends. My friends who Bob and I used to vacation with all the time love sushi. While I love seafood, the thought of eating it raw was never appealing to me. Our friends and Bob convinced me to try it one night. I was surprised at how much I liked it. The four of us had a really fun night in spite of the fact that I was laughing so hard at something Bob said, that I spilled a glass of wine all ove
r the table. Luckily, no one got an unexpected shower, and our dinners hadn't been served yet. The server was so nice about it. He said, "don't worry, it happens all the time, " but I knew he was just trying to make me feel better. It became one of those "remember when" stories.
Backing way up,I really needed that fresh air, sunshine, and a long walk (8.4 miles according to my phone). I stopped along the way, got to hug some of my favorite neighborhood dogs, sat on a bench that's on a raised wooden bridge along a path through the woods for awhile. It was so peaceful... It made me miss Bob. I wanted so much to be able to share this beautiful day with him. I started crying when I thought about him. Sitting there, alone on that bench, brought back memories of camping trips we took before the kids were born. On the way home I walked by a lagoon and there was a big gator catching some rays along the grassy edge. I've sort of gotten used to gators since I've lived here, they seem to be everywhere, but this one was too close for comfort. I'm not supposed to run anymore, but I ran for about a block. That gator was scary!! In spite of the tears, I enjoyed my walk, and was amazed at how much better I felt afterwards.
I hope Kim's parents are able to drive you to the hospital for the surgery and pick you up afterwards. I wish I lived closer to you so I could drive you. I'm glad Kim and her parents live upstairs in case you need anything after the procedure because you will need to take it easy for awhile.
Sleep well...
Sending you hugs, wishing you peace, all of us peace. DEB
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