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I’m finding things really hard

Discussion in 'Finding it Difficult to Move Foward' started by Not coping male, Jul 1, 2025.

  1. Not coping male

    Not coping male New Member

    My partner passed in march cancer I was with her with some family members, for 2 days I was sat at her bedside holding her hand, her family members ie brother and niece were disgraceful him filming and saying action I said stop but not heard, her niece was disgraceful and calling partners music sh++e it was my partner’s favourites. I ended up hallucinating due to no sleep not eating not taking my medication and her niece got me taken away and so I missed my partner passing away, in a way I’m happy with not being there as I think I would have had a breakdown, a girlfriend for 19 years we never lived together but met up for 3 days a week plus constant phone calls. I miss her so very very much. Ty for reading.
     
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  2. Chris M 2000

    Chris M 2000 Well-Known Member

    So very sorry to hear of your great loss. This was such a shock and I know it must have been and is very, very hard and painful for you.
    Please try to take good care of yourself. You will get through this and when you do, you want to still have your health.
    Try to sleep as much as you are able, take your medicine, drink plenty of water and eat healthy, and get outside in the fresh air even if it is only for a short walk. I read that the air has healing properties in itself and I am not surprised because God loves us so much and has put things in place to help us get through such a hurtful experience as you have had. Read the Psalms. They will be a comfort to you. Some of them talk about God bringing us throught the fire that these experiences are.
    Please keep recording your thoughts here as you feel led, because we care, and because it will help you sort through all of the thoughts that must be raging through your mind right now. I found that no one really had to have the answers for me because as I talked through everything that had happened to me, God always had the answer. I hope you have a friend that just knows how to listen. You can let them know they don't have to have an answer for you, but just letting you talk will help you sort things out.
    We love you and care about you and your health.
    Chris