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Discussion in 'Loss of Spouse' started by Helena Beatriz, May 4, 2022.

  1. Rose69

    Rose69 Well-Known Member

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  2. Rose69

    Rose69 Well-Known Member

    So true Bernadine , those words say it all, and the diagram is a perfect mirror of my life now.

    Take care.
    Rose
     
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  3. eyepilot13

    eyepilot13 Well-Known Member

    I just want to get through the day ! I H8the Holy Daze
     
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  4. Rose69

    Rose69 Well-Known Member

    Thinking about my GIC friends today, Thanksgiving Day. We don't have this festivity here but I know how important it is for all of you, and how difficult it is now, without the love of your life by your side.

    A virtual comfort hug to everyone.

    Rose.
     
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  5. eyepilot13

    eyepilot13 Well-Known Member

    I miss the way Valerie would fuss over a special meal for her two Georges.. Me and my son!
     
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  6. Rose69

    Rose69 Well-Known Member

    I understand George, there are still so many special dishes my C loved, that I just can't cook anymore, too heartbreaking.
     
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  7. eyepilot13

    eyepilot13 Well-Known Member

    And her baked goods!!!!! OMG the best!
     
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  8. Ceee

    Ceee Well-Known Member

    I need to come here more often to see your work. Your color combinations fascinate me, and your shaping. I bring one up full size and i can get lost in thoughts that the images bring to mind. Thank you for sharing.
     
  9. eyepilot13

    eyepilot13 Well-Known Member

    I try to upload art here... otherwise I don't know.. just not too into GIC lately..
    You can see more art at https://www.deviantart.com/eyepilot13
     
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  10. Sweetcole

    Sweetcole Well-Known Member

    I agree Rose I barely cook at and people don't get it. I do enough to get by with my kids but I can't bring myself to do something that inlived to do for my Gant. We'd discuss what we wanted and he's say sometimes cook what you want bay. Then there was days he'd call me and ask where me and the kids were when I'd picked them up and gone to the park. He'd say come home so yall can eat while the food is hot. He say I cooked cause I no you were tired. My cousin asked me to do sweet potato pies for thanksgiving but I told her I couldn't do it. So I get it when you say it's heartbreaking to cook some foods. Praying for our strength.
     
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  11. eyepilot13

    eyepilot13 Well-Known Member

    I realize I'll never eat her great food again!
     
  12. cjpines

    cjpines Well-Known Member

    And I'll never eat Jacks fine cooking ever again. He was the cook. Loved new recipes. I'll miss his homemade breads and gourmet recipes. I have a folder of his favorite recipes and I just can't look at them.
     
  13. eyepilot13

    eyepilot13 Well-Known Member

    I remember the last Christmas Cookie three years ago noW
     
  14. cjpines

    cjpines Well-Known Member

    I remember his rye bread, the best. Took him all day.
     
  15. Rose69

    Rose69 Well-Known Member

    George and Karen, I'm getting teary-eyed here, I relate to you both so much, I "get" it. Hugging you both!
    I miss my C's perfect, delicious pizzas. Apart from the fact that it's too heartbreaking for me to make them, I'm no good at it either. I can cook almost anything but when it comes to leavened doughs I'm useless. I can't believe I'll never eat his pizzas again. :( I'll never hear him complimenting me for my cooking, my cakes, with that huge, beautiful smile on his face. Gotta stop now, or the flood gates... It's raining this morning, too! :(
    Rose.
     
  16. eyepilot13

    eyepilot13 Well-Known Member

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  17. Rose69

    Rose69 Well-Known Member

    Beautiful George, thank you for brightening up my day!

    Rose
     
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  18. Deborah A.

    Deborah A. Well-Known Member

    I totally understand. I miss all of those kitchen moments and just the humdrum meals and moments that were so much a part of a lifetime.
     
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  19. eyepilot13

    eyepilot13 Well-Known Member

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  20. Ceee

    Ceee Well-Known Member

    J was also the pizza maker in our house and was well known for his stombolies. He was also our grillmaster. I miss all of that and it took a long time before i stopped putting things in the grocery cart because i knew he liked them. Now i order on line and it is easier to keep the purchases to just what i need.
    HUGS to all of you and your memories of the foods you shared together,