Hi Rose, I so agree, nature has kept me sane. Ron and I have always enjoyed watching birds, our second date was going to the beach. And yes, I live very close to many beaches. I live on an island, so many different bodies of water. As a child our family always had a boat. When Ron and got married we had a boat, kept it for many years. We’d go fishing and crabbing. I miss our relaxing or working in our yard together on weekends. My yard is a little too much for me to maintain but I’m trying. But it is my safe place. I wish that you lived close to the beach, even just sitting on a bench and feeling the sea breeze is so wonderful. I ended up at my daughters house today and I helped her with a few things. But it was pretty hot. We went up to 92°f today. Hope you stay cool. I’m finally going to rest. Robin
I wanted to say thanks for your kind words and I feel the same way when I stay in the spare bedroom ,you are so right about the honor ,we would have wanted them to do the same.My grandkids bring me joy that is priceless but there’s time when I think Gina you should be here to see this it’s chicken soup for the heart,take care.
Visits to our children and in your case grandchildren is healing even though we sure miss having our spouses with us and we would enjoy the visit so much more. I hope you make some new and special memories. Gina is watching, she knows. Enjoy this visit and take los of pictures. For me when I get home after a visit it can be hard for obvious reasons. But you’ll have the memories and hopefully pictures to enjoy. Robin
It's been a while since I have been on this site as well. Tomorrow will be seven months since my wife, Lizzy, passed. I miss her so much. When it happened I felt like all my nerves were exposed. The most comfortable things hurt. Everything hurt. July 8th would have been her 40th birthday and I am going to visit her sister in California. I know that trip will be bittersweet as well. Never did I think I would be visiting them without her. It is so hard. Wishing everyone peace. -Chad
Chad, it is so good to see you on here, youngest brother. Mostly, I've been talking with Gary. George is going through a rough time of mourning for Valerie. Lizzy has something in common with me. My birthday is on the Fourth of July. I think there's some truth to astrology. I know I would've gotten along with Lizzy, and so would Linda. In fact, Linda would've loved everyone on this site. Thank you for reaching out to TGW before your trip.My wish for you, is that it will be more sweet, than bitter. Looking forward to your account of the trip, when you return home.........Lou
Thanks for the reply Lou. I know it's been a while since I posted, guess I have going through a spell myself. I think you would have gotten a long as well. You both already like same Tea, Bigelow. I think that's right. I will definitely check back in after the trip. -Chad
Chad, thank you for checking in. I think your plan to visit Lizzy’s sister is a good idea. For Ron’s first birthday my daughter and I visited my son in FL. It’s hard. But I believe it helps. For me, coming back home to an empty house was very difficult. It could happen to you. But still worth being with family. When you feel up to it let us know how this visit went. wishi g you peace and strength. Robin
Wow, good memory about BIGELOW tea. I drink herbal tea,no alcohol. I've been having balance issues when I stand, probably due to my meds, which cause drowsiness. The good news is that my urologist will wean me off one of them. In the meantime, I go to a rehab center to see 2 kind female physical therapists. The first time I went , I told them I wanted to talk about Linda. who always came with me to any medical appointments. Then, I cried a little, before doing the exercises. Now, I can joke with them, and it feels good. I also go to a kind young female barber, and treat myself to a pedicure by a young married mother. I cried a little with her, too. Then, I laughed at the thought that Linda would probably say I was looking for female attention. But, like you, with Lizzy, no woman can replace the unique, warm relationships we had. I woke up way too early this am, & had to go back to sleep, I dreamt that I was massaging Linda's back. She had just had her hair cut & styled, and I kissed the back of her neck the way she liked.I said , "I miss you" , and woke up crying. Some days are better than others , Chad. Have a safe trip.......Lou
