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Trying and failing to cope

Discussion in 'Loss of Spouse' started by Ostickblack, Jul 7, 2023.

  1. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    p will b on tonite after 9.
     
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  2. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    thanks lou.
     
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  3. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    any body here now////
     
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  4. Van Gogh

    Van Gogh Well-Known Member

    Pete ( "Kelso"). It's almost 10pm
    on Monday, where I live , on the
    northern coast of Massachusetts.
    I believe there's a one hour
    time difference from your
    state of Pennsylvania. I know a
    widow who lives in Lancaster,
    near an Amish community. Do you mind telling us the general
    area of Pa. in which you live?
    My wife & I worked in the city,
    but upon retirement , moved
    to a friendly small town. Lou
    .
     
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  5. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    hi
     
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  6. Van Gogh

    Van Gogh Well-Known Member

    Morning Pete ( "Kelso"). Just
    woke up at 9am, my time, in
    Massachusetts,and saw your
    "hi"to our group. If you're
    having trouble getting started
    on Grief in Common, I have 2
    bits of advice: 1st, try not to
    worry about new thread titles,
    and stick with one simple one,
    like "Loss of Spouse", and 2nd,
    more importantly, refer to
    yourself as Pete. When I joined
    GIC 2 years ago, I chose Van
    Gogh as my user name, bc I
    identified with his tortured soul.
    Now, I prefer to be called Lou,
    and to call others here by their
    first names. The more you
    share with us about the daily
    grief over the death of Eve,
    the more of a conversation we
    can have. For example, looking
    at your age in your info, may
    I be right in assuming
    you're retired like I am? If
    you don't feel like replying to
    a particular post, perhaps you
    can put "LIKE" to show us you
    read it. For example, it doesn't
    sound like you read my post
    from last night at 10pm, my
    time, but Rose, in Italy, did. Lou
     
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  7. Rose69

    Rose69 Well-Known Member

    Hello Kelso, Hello Lou.
    Lou, Robin, Deborah, you have all written very comforting words to Pete (Kelso), I'm sure he will feel at home here with us. It's true that we need to talk about our lost soulmates, we have to share all that turmoil going on in our minds, knowing there is someone out there who understands makes all the difference in helping us get through each day.
    Rose
     
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  8. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    i just cant understand all this being alone.
     
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  9. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    will anyone be here to nite to chat
     
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  10. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    hi rose.when is the next time you are here ?
     
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  11. Kim Elizabeth

    Kim Elizabeth Well-Known Member

    Hi Kelso. I was not well yesterday. So I did not log on. How are you? Tell me how your day went. Did you work? I am working now. But I have a little time. Kim
     
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  12. Kim Elizabeth

    Kim Elizabeth Well-Known Member

    I will come on tonight. Around 9:45pm Kim Elizabeth
     
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  13. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    i am kelso only.pete is someone who also lost some one i am sorry.
     
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  14. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    kim i am here.
     
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  15. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    kim hello. chat i am here.
     
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  16. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    i await your reply
     
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  17. Van Gogh

    Van Gogh Well-Known Member

    Sorry that I called you Pete,
    Kelso. Lou
     
  18. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    hello kim
     
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  19. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    thanks
     
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  20. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    anyone here
     
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