Chad,
You and Bob have something in common, He was a huge Star Wars fan. Lizzy and I were on the same page. I'm not into Star Wars either, but like Lizzy, it made me happy to see Bob watching Star Wars movies because I knew how much he loved them. I went with Bob to see a couple of the movies on the big screen, when they first came out. I confess, I fell asleep during one of them, but it made me feel good knowing how much Bob was enjoying himself. It made me smile, seeing him glued to the screen, enjoying the movie, munching on that movie theater over the top greasy, buttered popcorn, washing it down with a Coke. I don't like buttered popcorn, especially the movie theater kind, but I'm getting off track here, so enough of this! It was sort of like watching a kid in a candy shop for the very first time.
When Bob's health began spiraling downwards, my kids visited us in 2019. They took us out for dinner at a really nice seafood restaurant with outdoor seating, overlooking the ocean, in one of what I think, is the most beautiful areas in this state. They also took us on a dolpin watch (really difficult because Bob could barely walk, but with help, we were able to get him seated as comfortably as possible on the boat), wanting Bob to be out on the water, knowing it probably was the last time he would ever be able to be on a boat. And, the morning before they had to leave, they took Bob to see a Star Wars movie. It was one of the newer ones that Bob wanted to see on the big screen. My kids, especially my sons, enjoy Star Wars movies, so they took Bob. I was so tired, I stayed in my pjs until they got back, happily drinking lots of coffee, so grateful for our children, for the very special time we were able to share, all of us together. Sadly, this was the last time all of us were together. COVID hit, and travel was restricted. I need a tissue...
This SUCKS!!! BUG TIME!!!, TU!!! (Bernadine was right, TU stands for total understatement. Something I've been saying for years. It's grown way past stale, especially on GIC, but I can't seem to stop myself from saying it. Old habits are hard to beak!!!, TU!!!)
My chrome book has hit super slo mo mode this morning, and it's taking me what seems like forever to type this. So very briefly, before I put this thing away, I love!!!, TU!!! how supportive Lizzy's family is. I agree with Robin. "It was a very special gift they gave you." I'm glad that you have Lizzy's family to share memories with (if you want to and feel up to it.). I find that one of the things that helps, is being able to talk about Bob, all those wonderful memories with friends and family who knew him. Talking about Bob keeps his memory alive. This is so very important to me. Bob was, and always will be a big part of my life, even though now he isn't here to share life with me physically.
Sending you and pink haired Fergie lots of hugs, wishing you peace, all of us peace. DEB
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