Makes me sad when I see couples out eating holding hands Seems like you have a lot of support in the beginning but as time goes on it is less I try to get out when asked by friends but sometimes I tell them I am busy even though I am not doing anything Everything is so different Feel lost
Colleen, I can relate because I do the same thing sometimes when my family and friends ask me to go places with them. I am so use to me and my husband going places together or relaxing at home but not it just so lonely without him the past three months. the 26th of May will be 3 months. I feel lost. God Bless You Colleen
wow I thought it was just me.People dont know what they have I am jellies of them still have what I had and I miss it so much just the things we did as a couple
yes. i feel the same. so lost. all the things we used to do that i took for granted. silly little things. walking around home depot holding hands, talking about all the ways to make the house look nice. just sitting in the den, watching mindless television. my husband left Jan 12.
The world and friends look at you differently after you loss your spouse. I sometimes feel invisible due to this new role that I am getting used to. Friends do start to drift away, your loss makes them feel vulnerable in their own lives and it is easier to say "I think about you often" rather than reach out and contact.
I miss Chilton he was a good man 40 years old is to young to loose your life to cancer.Now I have to learn how to move forward
