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So Alone

Discussion in 'Loss of Spouse' started by eyepilot13, Aug 6, 2023.

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  1. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    hello
     
    kelso, Aug 9, 2023
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  2. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    i am so lost today
     
    kelso, Aug 9, 2023
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  3. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    another tough day no sleep etc
     
    kelso, Aug 9, 2023
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  4. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    am scared of the fall/winter
     
    kelso, Aug 9, 2023
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  5. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    seems i am in a BIG rut
     
    kelso, Aug 9, 2023
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  6. eyepilot13

    eyepilot13 Well-Known Member

    I have been having really bad days lately. I am not myself. I have no motivation to do anything except sleep. I thought I was doing better in June. July was pretty awful and August is even worse. I have no energy. I have never felt this alone and disconnected...
     
    eyepilot13, Aug 9, 2023
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  7. eyepilot13

    eyepilot13 Well-Known Member

    I totally hear you man...
     
    eyepilot13, Aug 9, 2023
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  8. eyepilot13

    eyepilot13 Well-Known Member

    Me too
     
    eyepilot13, Aug 9, 2023
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  9. eyepilot13

    eyepilot13 Well-Known Member

    I just spent the last 3 hours on the couch. Couldn't move... I just went back on GIC
     
    eyepilot13, Aug 9, 2023
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  10. Van Gogh

    Van Gogh Well-Known Member

    Bruce. thank you so much for
    replying to me just now. You are
    obviously extremely depressed and missing the presence of
    your loving wife and soulmate,Terry. As other
    Grief Warriors,like Robin,
    Nicole("Sweetcole").Bernadine
    ( "Countless Joy"),Karen, DEB.
    & I, have suggested: walking
    outside in nature, breathing
    fresh air,enjoying the sunshine
    if possible, is better for one's

    mental, physical,and emotional
    health than staying inside alone.
    I know that Terry would've
    wanted you not only to
    survive,but to eventually
    enjoy life. Please keep writing
    to me and others here, Bruce.
    Lou
     
    Van Gogh, Aug 9, 2023
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  11. Van Gogh

    Van Gogh Well-Known Member

    George, I thought I was replying
    to Bruce ( "Kelso") instead of
    to you. Sorry about that, but my
    same words to Bruce could
    apply to you, and to all of us. Lou
     
    Van Gogh, Aug 9, 2023
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  12. eyepilot13

    eyepilot13 Well-Known Member

    I tried going out... no energy. Humid and cloudy. Nothing interests me lately
     
    eyepilot13, Aug 9, 2023
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  13. Van Gogh

    Van Gogh Well-Known Member

    That sucks, BroGeo! Wish I
    could wave a magic wand,
    and move you out of your
    hot , humid, AND high crime
    area! Stay in until cooler. Lou
     
    Van Gogh, Aug 9, 2023
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  14. eyepilot13

    eyepilot13 Well-Known Member

    Thanks Lou Not much can be done unfortunately
     
    eyepilot13, Aug 9, 2023
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  15. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    hey if your around buzz me ok ?
     
    kelso, Aug 9, 2023
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  16. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    thanks lou.i now relize that its not me.but .............?
     
    kelso, Aug 9, 2023
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  17. Van Gogh

    Van Gogh Well-Known Member

    Bruce, good for you for getting
    on this site and sticking with it.
    Some grievers get on here
    briefly , and move on. I have a
    feeling you'll stay. Almost my
    bedtime, so I'll say good night.
    You will probably hear from
    Rose, in Italy,& others,
    overnight, and can thank
    them in the morning.
    Lou
     
    Van Gogh, Aug 9, 2023
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  18. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    2.54 awake again. WHY can i sleep more than 5/6 hours.nice meal in bed at 9
     
    kelso, Aug 10, 2023
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  19. kelso

    kelso Well-Known Member

    and still TIRED
     
    kelso, Aug 10, 2023
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  20. Rose69

    Rose69 Well-Known Member

    Five hours is the best I can get, totally understand you.
    Rose
     
    Rose69, Aug 10, 2023
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