Wow, Rose, just woke up, briefly, due to
"plumbing issue", as our friend, Deb, so
humorously puts it. I"ll keep this brief. I
noticed that you wrote several posts, on
different threads , to comfort different
people, including new members , like
Ruth, who I think is our youngest widow.
Her story with the haunting portrait of a
woman ( not herself), moved me. I told
Ruth I'm old enough to be her grandfather.
I can't imagine the sudden , shocking
death of her husband, Anthony, and father
of their children. This is so cruel and
unfair. Ruth is an "an old soul" and obviously highly intelligent and brave.
She is a voracious reader of books on
grieving. I hope she reads Permission to
Mourn, by Tom Zuba. He was suicidal over
the deaths of his baby girl, wife, and young
son, in that order, from various illnesses.
What kept him going , as it does for many
grief warriors here, is that he had to
raise his 2 other sons. Thank God, he
chose to live, to care for them, and
mourners like us, with his books, and
lectures on YouTube. I will read your
other posts, over coffee, when I wake up
in the morning, including the kind one to
me about music being our salvation. We now have 3 new members, Ruth, Cathy,
and now, a very young veteran, Dylan,
from the state of Washington. I will give
him a quick reply now, and I hope all
TGW will welcome & comfort Dylan, soon.
Thank you, Rose, you have become a true
leader on GIC, in such a short time. It
already seems like a long time ago when
YOU were our newest member, and I asked
you to share your husband's first name,
and, to honor his wishes, you bravely
used his first initial, C. Thank you, Rose.
Lou
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