I lost my dad end of April. My 15 year old brother with special needs lost his dad. My 25 year old brother who’s in a very tough moment in his life after graduation lost his dad. My mom is the one that hurts the most. She lost her husband, her person. She had lost both parents long ago and my dad was the one she leaned on as they raised my special needs brother. It hurts me that she’s now alone in caring for our youngest brother. I’m trying everything to get our family to live in the same country. Im in a very uncertain moment in my life when I lost my dad. Everything I did I failed in but I had my parents who stayed consistent. They loved me unconditionally and loosing that makes all my other rejections and failures mean nothing. I lost my anchor, my support, my biggest cheerleader, the man who taught me everything, and my best friend. My dad has departed from us in flesh but he’s with the lord in paradise. God is good! I can’t wait to see him again in eternity
Miaa, my heart breaks for you and your family. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Loss in excruciatingly difficult when you do not have your tribe/family nearby. Grief is supposed to be processed together, never in isolation. I experience a sudden tragic loss in my family yesterday, but also do not live in the same place or nearby. It has been shattering, and do not know how I will move forward. Just know you have someone to talk to and to confide in. Maybe we can find peace in processing our grief together. Your father is forever with you.
Hi Samantha, thank you for your sincere words. I’m so sorry to learn about your loss. I hate that we are living in horrific realities. Loosing a loved one suddenly is something that flips your whole world upside down. Especially when you can’t even be close to family. It’s a very isolating experience. Something beyond comprehension. No words in any of the languages in this world can describe it. Id love to be by your side in this grief. That means a lot to me
