No, I just don't know, sort of sudden like going to the hospital early Friday the 8th of March and 8 days later on a Saturday I am a widower the second time. Sofia was a dainty darling of a wife who knew how to make some great breskfasts breads, awsum chicken soups and other great things. God may have taken her back to heaven but to be quite frank about it, if that was God's plan he sure as hell did not need the help of a creep Alex N. up there in Tallahassee to rat me out to the hospital, telling them I was not legally married. We had a commital by the church so the state would not steal from our s.s. every month. In the eyes of God, though we were husband and wife and I wss very pleased to be Sofia"s husband. So this is what happened, and I can not be sure if the hospital was being straight with me, I think they would say whatever to keep a good name. But they were told I was not legally married by some schmuck up in Tallahassee in charge of public records. So they did what they said they had to an when the dialysis machine broke late Thursday night March 14 they did nothing because they wanted legal consent. Nice huh? I wonder if the hospital even asked who he was. Did Alex Nicolas have to give his name and title to the Hospital? Or did they just take his word? In any case, so called Dr. Yen could not wait to scare the hell out of my wife's two sisters with his total lack of empathy. It is such a shane that as good as I heard he is, hd has all the niceness of a bucket of worms. This led to the two sisters getting my wife into hospice very quickly And by Saturday March 16 at 1: pm The same day and time a year and 76 days before, we were married. I will not say anything crude or rude but that the hospital and a real creep have really hurt me very much. A so called man who I never met ratted me out because he was left out of a phone conference. Alex P. now Alex N. God knows just what you did. You may get away with it down here but when you dtop off the twig, who can say what will happen ?