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Just don't know.

Discussion in 'Coping After a Sudden Loss' started by Ray G., May 5, 2019.

  1. Ray G.

    Ray G. Well-Known Member

    No, I just don't know, sort of sudden
    like going to the hospital early Friday the 8th of March and 8 days
    later on a Saturday I am a widower
    the second time.

    Sofia was a dainty darling of
    a wife who knew how to make some great breskfasts breads, awsum chicken soups and other great things.

    God may have taken her back to heaven but to be quite frank about
    it, if that was God's plan he sure as hell did not need the help of a creep
    Alex N. up there in Tallahassee to rat me out to the hospital, telling them I was not legally married.

    We had a commital by the church so the state would not steal from our s.s. every month. In the eyes of
    God, though we were husband and
    wife and I wss very pleased to be
    Sofia"s husband.

    So this is what happened, and I can
    not be sure if the hospital was being straight with me, I think they
    would say whatever to keep a good name. But they were told I was not
    legally married by some schmuck
    up in Tallahassee in charge of public records. So they did what they said they had to an when the
    dialysis machine broke late Thursday night March 14 they did
    nothing because they wanted legal
    consent. Nice huh?

    I wonder if the hospital even asked
    who he was. Did Alex Nicolas have to give his name and title to the
    Hospital? Or did they just take his
    word?

    In any case, so called Dr. Yen could
    not wait to scare the hell out of my
    wife's two sisters with his total lack
    of empathy. It is such a shane that
    as good as I heard he is, hd has all the niceness of a bucket of worms.

    This led to the two sisters getting my wife into hospice very quickly
    And by Saturday March 16 at 1: pm
    The same day and time a year and
    76 days before, we were married.

    I will not say anything crude or rude but that the hospital and a
    real creep have really hurt me very
    much. A so called man who I never
    met ratted me out because he was
    left out of a phone conference.

    Alex P. now Alex N. God knows just
    what you did. You may get away
    with it down here but when you dtop off the twig, who can say what
    will happen ?