I don’t understand why my grief intensifies

Wendi, hello,
I joined this group because I lost my mother Jan. 7th. Her death brought up the grief for my husband as well and latest partner who died 7 years ago. I don't think we ever stop missing out loved ones. It gets easier as time passes. We find a way to learn to live with it. It has been my case.
I wish you all the strength you might need to go through this grief journey. You are not alone.
Take care,
Moon

 

Hello daisygal13,
What you said in your post is exactly how I feel about the loss of my husband Andy. He was my best friend we talked all through the day and everything revolved around me and him. Now there is only me. He was so funny and thoughtful and my biggest cheerleader. I looked after him and our dog Lola. I also helped my elderly parents. All of that is gone and I feel by myself. I didn't want to stay at our house so I am living with my dad. He is 86 and lost my mom of 64 years on 9/5. He seems to handle his grief better than I do. I am sorry for your loss but I get how you feel because I feel the same way.

 

May God strengthen and comfort you.