I lost my oldest son December 16, 2022 due to sudden death at age 51. It's been hard and my life has been emptier. On January 3, 2026, my wife found our middle son deceased in his home, at age 53. I'm broken and the grief is sometimes overwhelming. I try to stay busy but can only concentrate for so long. I love and cherish my remaining son. I think this may be harder for him. He loved and was very close to both his brothers. Not looking for advice. Just wanted to share.
Very sorry for these significant losses of your two dearly beloved sons. We lost one of our sons to suicide at age 28. I have heard it said someone has a greater problem than your own. This is the case with you. I can't imagine losing two children. It must be awful. I am so sorry for your other son. It is so hard to make sense when something like this happens. God was my only refuge. I kept waiting for Him to help me because I know what a wonderfully loving God we serve. And He did help me. He was my strength when I was at my weakest and thought I couldn't go on one day. But here I am way down the road from that day and God has been my hope and strength during all this time. I need Him and He love me---and He loves you. Call on Him asking for what you need and He will supply that need. He is good and He is generous. May God bless and strengthen you. Chris
