Hi. I'm new to the group. My husband passed away on December 21st. He had a bone marrow transplant in May 2018. Although he had his transplant in May he was doing relatively well although had been dependent on transfusion 1-2 times per week because his red blood cells were not producing has they should. He went to his regular Friday appointment on December 7th and was having some shortness of breath. His doctor decided admit him back into the hospital to give him some steroids to improve his lungs. We thought it would be a couple weeks and back home. Unfortunately graft vs host disease (GVHD) (meaning his donor's sells began to attach him); were attaching his lungs. Two weeks later he passed away. This was so unexpected. I've pretty much finished up "taking care" of all the things people do when someone passes away and now I have to face the fact that my husband, friend, and partner of 21 years is no longer with me. I'm just sad and miss him so much.