Hi Ray, I am very sorry for your loss. That's a nice way of wearing the ring. I love the idea of you writing Sofia's story. Beautiful idea. As you might have read I started a journal a few months after my husband passed . When I first started it I would write my thoughts of the day. I will admit it was dark writing on certain days. Now I have started writing my memories of him. So many good ones. I have made the decision not to focus on the day he died. I will be thinking of you as you start your journey of he. Be kind to yourself.