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Lost my wife of 26 years

Discussion in 'Loss of Spouse' started by ChrisL, Aug 25, 2018.

  1. ChrisL

    ChrisL Member

    My wife died August 4th the middle of the night while I was asleep only 10 feet from her on the couch. She had a swallowing problem for a few months for which she was seeing doctors. She aspirated food in the middle of the night because she was hungry. I woke up at 6am and found her. I never heard a thing. I wasn't there for her in her final moments. I couldn't bring her back. Paramedics couldn't bring her back. The love of my life and my best friend is gone! She was only 46. I re-live that moment at least once a day. I miss her so incredibly. No one ever loved me like her!
     
  2. Sciguy

    Sciguy Well-Known Member

    very sorry to hear about your wife. I lost my mother suddenly in May. My father was in the same bed and never heard anything. I hope you find this site helpful.
     
  3. ChrisL

    ChrisL Member

    Thank you. There are many reasons that make no sense. It was simply part of God's plan.