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Lost my soulmate and have no Closure

Discussion in 'Coping After a Sudden Loss' started by Laura Abbey 81820, Dec 23, 2020.

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  1. Cyanotype

    Cyanotype Well-Known Member

    Yes New Years Eve was difficult for me also....I had been quiet for awhile and now the emotional dam broke. Fortunately I do stop crying and go outside for a walk. You ate not alone with your reactions.
     
    Cyanotype, Jan 6, 2021
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  2. Cyanotype

    Cyanotype Well-Known Member

    Are
     
    Cyanotype, Jan 6, 2021
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  3. Barbara Ann 927

    Barbara Ann 927 New Member

     
    Barbara Ann 927, Jan 7, 2021
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  4. Barbara Ann 927

    Barbara Ann 927 New Member

    I lost my husband on New Year’s Day morning. I’m going through the same exact thing. I feel like I’m going crazy like it’s not real. I have no appetite at all. Guess this is a normal reaction.
     
    Barbara Ann 927, Jan 7, 2021
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  5. Enderly130

    Enderly130 Active Member

    I'm so sorry for both your losses. It's the hardest thing you'll ever go through.
    It has been for me.
    I was told by a grief counselor that loss of appetite is a normal reaction to loss.
    Also that your body goes into survival mode. It uses only what it needs.
    I had no appetite for about 2 months. Then, months of nausea.
    Loss of a spouse changes everything. So meals are changed. I still don't cook regularly, and its been 15 months. Still no desire for food.

    Hugs to you both.
     
    Enderly130, Jan 7, 2021
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  6. Enderly130

    Enderly130 Active Member

    I'm sorry for everyone's loss.
     
    Enderly130, Jan 7, 2021
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