Hello, I'm new here. First I want to send my condolences to everyone who has lost a love one. It has definitely been challenging supporting my boyfriend (who lost his mom), stepdad (lost his dad), and then one of my best friends (lost her man). I'll try not to make this too long: My boyfriend lost his mom back in April and I thought I was doing the right thing by making things easier around the house, give him space, limit talking and so on. I never said anything about him not working, then of course I been paying the bills and taking care of our home. It's been quite exhausting and draining, especially because he gives me no support what so ever. Whenever I ask/say ANYTHING he throws a fit. Its like were on repeat everyday and I am so exhausted, confused, and hurt. He says to: Leave him alone Stop talking to him & give him space That I don't know what he is going (which he is right I don't) That I am selfish and not everything is about me or our relationship because I'm not his priority Look he's been aggressive, and so much tension in the house. I love him dearly, but I don't how much longer I (we) can tolerate this... I'm trying to be patient and supportive but it's hard when continues to treat me like this.