Hi! I'm new to this group and really happy I found out about it, it looks really awesome. I lost my husband by cancer around 8 months ago. All I'm feeling is confused, I can't make any important or even small decisions. I feel like I lost my own self by not believing in myself, I'm self conscious and having a hard time being vulnerable. In other-words I'm not familiar with who I am, I am not the person I was with my husband around. Does any of this sound familiar with any of you?