Today is my 2nd birthday without my husband, and the first since the sudden loss of my son in law. (son) The other kids and grandkids had me over for brunch and cake. It was nice. I am thankful for all of them. But the unmistakable undertone of those missing was so very present. Things are so hollow without them. How will things ever be normal or enjoyable again?
Now, today is 3 months since my son in law passed. I miss him terribly. He was my buddy, my friend, my son. I would have given my life for him.
When the wound of the losses is not so raw then its possible to take in the good of experiences that had happened with your love ones.