HeyHoney,
Words seem so very shallow at times, now being one of them. I hope you know how sorry I am that your husband passed away. My husband, Bob, was sick for many years, but it wasn't until the beginning of 2018 that I had to become his full time caregiver. It was the toughest, most challenging thing I've ever had to do, but, and this is one of those really BIG!!! BUTS!!!, I would do it all over again if I could.
There is so much I want to tell you, but I have an appointment soon, and need to find a way to coax my little furry angel, Skye, into her "room," a/k/a crate. I adopted her from a rescue, and on May 14th, we will have been together for four months. Like you, your husband, Robin and Ron, Bob and I love dogs!!!, TUTTAM!!! (Total Understatement To The Absolute Max!!!) I agree with everything you and Robin have said about them. Skye is approximately 61 lbs, but I think she's gained a little weight recently, and from what I was told at the rescue, most likely an English Setter mix. However, people have stopped me while we're taking our walks, and have told me that they think she is much more than half English Setter. Others think she has some Australian Shepard in her, and even a little resemblence to a Border Collie. I don't see the resemblence to a Border Collie, but can see the resemblance to an Australian Shepard. She has the softest, silkiest fur, white is the background color with lots of black spots, a little bit of brown on her front legs and face.
Her fur is starting to grow back, I think when she was found, pregnant at the side of a road in a neighboring state, her fur had to be shaved in places, definitely cut. When I adopted her, she had lots of scabs all over her body. Now that her fur is growing back, she has lots of feathering on her legs, and her fur is about medium in length. When she looks at me with those soulful brown eyes, it melts my heart every time, lol... I love her so much, can't even begin to imagine my life without her. She has given me so much, and asks for so little in return. Dogs are the absolute best!!!, TUTTAM!!!
I'm so glad Robin has two amazing dogs in her life and that you have three of them. Georgine, also a new member, who I don't think you've "met" yet, is also a dog lover, and has three Standard Poodles. Bernadine, another member of our GIC "family" adopted an adorable dog several years ago. She sometimes posts pictures of Maggie, so it's been fun watching her grow up. I'm sure I've missed some of our other furry family members, but will blame this on my always foggy widow brain, lol...
As usual, I'm getting carried away, I can "talk" almost as much as I can talk, lol... Lou, who you've already met, refers to my long posts as books. However, I really need to go, so keeping this to a chapter. Before I go, although I don't have time to go into detail, I was over the top terrified when Bob passed away. At times I thought I was having panic attacks. I agree that the deaths of those we love affect us differently, depending upon the relationship we had with them. Have to go, but rather continue "talking" to you.
I'm so sorry you had to find us, but so glad you did. I hope you'll stick around, give us the chance to get to know you, and you the chance to get to know us. Welcome to our GIC "family," TGW (The Grief Warriors. The name Lou came up with for our group fits us so perfectly!!!, TUTTAM!!!)
Sending you lots of hugs and love, to you and your three fur babies, wishing you peace, all of us peace. DEB & Skye
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