My dad died suddenly in June, and soon after my mom, his wife of 62 years had a resurgence of cardiac problems. Still haven't been able to grieve his liss, and now im anticipating her's, as she's also been diagnosed with dementia. It landed her in the hospital and then rehabilitation center, where she still is. Trying to transition her to assisted living, which she doesn't want to do. (Long very sad story, which breaks me). When dad passed, i packed a bag and grabbed my cat, drove a couple of hours to be there, and haven't been home since. Im physically, emotionally, and so psychologically displaced. My sister is here, too, but she's got too many of her own huge problems that she's not available to help with anything. Oh, and btw, im also power of attorney and health care proxy -- involuntary, but can't get out of it. It's beyond imagination. Im so overwhelmed and sad. Can't figure out how im going to get to the other side of this. Have therapy 1x week -- just a drop in the ocean. I'm an orphan now, and don't know what to do, how to do it, or where to go.