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Lost my wife

Discussion in 'Loss to COVID-19' started by HNH1601, Oct 5, 2021.

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  1. HNH1601

    HNH1601 Member

    Lost my wife to Covid19. She was 44. We have two daughters aged 10 and 16. I'm so lost. It feels like I could have saved her if I acted quicker in getting her to hospital. I miss her so much. We were married for 20 years. She had so much to live for. I feel so sad that she misses out on watching our kids grow up. She lived for us. For our kids.
     
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  2. bekbek26

    bekbek26 New Member

    I'm so sorry for your loss.. I lost my beautiful partner to Covid Pneumonia on September 17 2021.. I feel so lost and incomplete.
     
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  3. HNH1601

    HNH1601 Member

    I'm sorry for your loss. I know what you mean about feeling incomplete. It's like I'm half of a whole. I pray that your pain eases.
     
  4. rcoop00c

    rcoop00c New Member

    I just lost my Wife and Best Friend, only True friend of 20 years, 2 weeks ago, she was only 57, still trying to figure out how to deal, seems our 17 year old daughter is a lot stronger than myself, although I am afraid she has not fully realized or jt has not completely set in yet, not for me either for that matter, everyone tells me go day to day, hell I am having trouble going moment to moment. I am Sorry for Your loss to this horrible man made virus...
     
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  5. angelique5

    angelique5 Member

    I just lost my husband 7 days ago, Dec 18th. He and his daughter died of covid on the same day. Just 26 and 47 yrs old. I too feel the guilt and get stuck replaying the events wondering if I'd done something differently might he be here with us?

    He was so wonderful..my best friend. I'm so lost without him.
     
  6. HNH1601

    HNH1601 Member

    Deepest sympathy for your loss. This might sound cliché, but take it day by day. Even minute by minute. Don't be too hard on yourself and take care of yourself. I pray that your pain eases.
     
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  7. angelique5

    angelique5 Member

    How are you doing today, HNH??
     
  8. rcoop00c

    rcoop00c New Member

    I am Really Sorry for Your loss, this is the hardest thing anyone could ever have to go through, I always thought I was so tough and hard, there has not been a day I have not cried in the last 38 days, my Wife used to give me a little trouble because I was not good at showing my feelings, 20 years and she never seen me cry, well making up for it now...
     
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