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Lost my husband

Discussion in 'Loss of Spouse' started by Lili, Sep 21, 2018.

  1. Lili

    Lili Member

    I lost him after 32 years of marriage. He went to God on August 10, 2018. How do I learn to live without him?
     
  2. Jenny N Lane

    Jenny N Lane Member

    I'm sorry about your loss, I loss my husband June 25th 2018. I miss him every day.
     
  3. Lili

    Lili Member

    Im so sorry about your loss. It's sooo hard. Mine was diagnosed with lung cancer metastasized to the brain with 5 tumors on June 23rd this year. How do we go from here? The pain is unbearable.
     
  4. Jenny N Lane

    Jenny N Lane Member

    Huey was the love of my life and he was my true love but I'm very strong in my faith an we can get though this.
     
  5. Lili

    Lili Member

    My husband and I knew each other since we were children. We grew up together. What state are you in?
     
  6. Jenny N Lane

    Jenny N Lane Member

    I'm so lonely and I cry alot. It will be 3 months this coming Tuesday I still can't believe he's gone
     
  7. Jenny N Lane

    Jenny N Lane Member

    I live in Florida I. I met my husband on eharmony
     
  8. Lili

    Lili Member

    How old are you?
     
  9. Jenny N Lane

    Jenny N Lane Member

    I'm 36 and he was 44
     
  10. Lili

    Lili Member

    Brain tumors. We have to be strong.
     
  11. Jenny N Lane

    Jenny N Lane Member

    Yes we do.
     
  12. Lili

    Lili Member

    We know is hard and we will never forget. We will have this hole in our hearts forever. We are different people without our husbands. I don't know what to say or what to do. I had back surgery about 3 weeks after the funeral and now I'm still in bed and not being able to go back to work. I'm hoping that going back to work it will open a new way of learning to live without my love. It's going to be harder coming back home and him not being home. In PA rains a lot a nd is cloudy which is very drepressing and adds on to how Im feeling. I pray to God every day.
     
  13. Jenny N Lane

    Jenny N Lane Member

    My husband and I met on eharmony in 2009 and it was love at first sight we finally met I was Michigan and he was here in Florida. And i was his first kiss.
     
  14. Jenny N Lane

    Jenny N Lane Member

    Im so lost without my husband
     
  15. Lili

    Lili Member

    My heart breaks for you. He was so young. Mine turned 56 the day of his funeral. Do you live by yourself?
     
  16. Jenny N Lane

    Jenny N Lane Member

    No I live with 93 year old mother. I thought I would live with Huey for the rest of my life but God had another plan. I was with my husband when he died he went so peaceful he knew I was there.
     
  17. Lili

    Lili Member

    I was with my husband too. I wish I could hug you right now. I'm like waiting for my husband just to show up like he never left. But then it hurts even more because it's not going to happen. I'm trying now to read a book about grief and what to do. I don't know if it's going to help.
     
  18. Jenny N Lane

    Jenny N Lane Member

    Grief books does help i have read alot of them. After my husband died I felt like he was in the room with me i misd huey mostly at night and weekends are hard for me. He. Will always be in my heart.
     
  19. Lili

    Lili Member

    I know Silviu's soul is in Heaven and someday we'll meet again. He is with his parents, my sisters, our dogs.
    We got a tornado warning - this is life.
    Lets keep talking. Ut helps both of us. God bless you.
     
  20. Jenny N Lane

    Jenny N Lane Member

    Yes I would like keep on talking to you. I have been going to grief support group class at hospice care where my husband died. It's been helping me.