On October 30th, 2022 - I held my 17 month old daughter Remi Skye until she gained her wings after her 34 day fight for her life. She’d been at the babysitters house on Sept. 26th where she’d been left unattended for some time and gained access to the pool where she drowned. Upon arrival of the EMT’s Remi was without oxygen for 15 minutes which caused significant brain damage. My husband and I were by her side day and night for 34 days while she was in the hospital, we sought second opinions to ensure we did everything possible to fight for our daughter. We have 2 children, one spent these long days and nights at her aunts house while we tried to explain the situation to her. Remi Skye was a vivacious, smart, beautiful and spunky little girl. She had so much life to live, and so much love to give. She had the world at her hands and unfortunately because of negligence and the inability to take responsibility for ones actions she will never have the opportunity she deserves. My husband and I swore that we’d honor Remi by ensuring that we were selfless and pursued the best quality of life that we could give her. “Quality over quantity” was the mindset that we’d lived by, and at the end of our 34 days we’d come to terms with the fact that Remi was no longer living a life that was at the quality that was to the standards that my husband or I set for her. I will forever love my baby girl, and she will forever be in my dreams. I will never understand how I am too live the rest of my life without Remi. It’s a day to day survival; and a struggle to get through however for the sake of my 9 yr old I know I have to move forward.
Angelmama, HUGS. I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful little girl. If you believe, she will always be an angel watching over you and her family. HUGS. to you and your family.
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So very sorry for the loss of your baby girl, Remi Skye. Such a beautiful name and I am sure she was beautiful too. This is such a difficult loss for you and you are in the early stages of grief which seem unbearable. It looks like the last time you were on here was Dec. How are things going for you now Angelmama? We care. Chris
How sad. Only someone who has gone through the grief of losing a child can understand the depth of the pain you are feeling. It is a very difficult thing to go through and I pray you will turn to God for comfort, strength, and help. I would not have made it without the hope that God was going to help me function again. I just kept waiting on Him and He came through. A faithful God who loves you and your baby. Chris
Hi angelmana22 I’m so sorry for your loss I don’t have any children but I feel your pain Almost impossible to take. I lost my life partner same way (different but without oxygen in the brain 10 min and 30 days in coma after part is the same) It was the neglect of the babysitter on yours, it was neglect of the doctors on ours. And the quality of life you set for your baby and having the make the decision was also same with my tragedy. just waiting and hoping to hear some good news from the doctors that everything’s gonna be ok despite the situation is not looking good at all, seeing her like that with no movement but can’t do anything about it during the whole time, watching those monitor all day, all these tests, scans, can’t be able help her was so sad, so painful, so traumatizing. It was probably the same with you. That will follow me probably the rest of my life. I can’t describe how devastating it is. I know that you already know. I can tell you and your husband such beautiful, loving people from the way you wrote your story. I’m happy that you two have each other and have another child after a devastating tragedy like that. I’m glad that you guys stuck together and don’t let your family broke up completely. Not everyone can do that. You guys are very strong. That’s the part that is different with me because all we had was each other in this life. It was’ me and her against the whole world’ she used to say.. She was my sunshine, my joy, my best friend, my everything and everybody. I’m still in a shock and disbelief that she is not here anymore. I’m having hard times accepting that fact. Something died inside me when she died and lost my purpose. maybe it is not good to compare but When I lost my mom 8 years ago I was sad but nowhere near like this. Losing my partner broke my soul and put a big hole in my heart. I know that she is with God now and with her father that she loved so much She does not have to worry about a thing in this corrupt world. I pray God that He would show me a way. I know He planned everything this way and I can’t even begin, even imagine to understand how His mind works. But one thing for sure He has so much love for every single one of us. Hope that i find my purpose He designed for me and pass my test He gave me on this earth and meet her again for eternal life. God bless you and your family and your baby’s soul In Jesus name
Hi Ceee I wish this chat room all empty and no one going through no pain because of losing someone they loved. It is the hardest thing to deal with it. Therefore more people here means more support. We all are going to face death one day. Only God knows how and when We just have to try our best to avoid the preventable ones by using our free will and make the right choices. God bless everyone!