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How not to miss them when they are so important part of my life

Discussion in 'Loss of Both Parents' started by Palk, Oct 31, 2020.

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  1. Palk

    Palk New Member

    I lost my father in 2000. My mother did everything after than. Untill I lost her in July 2020.
    She had shunt in heart and was terminally ill. I did take care of her in the past months. It was difficult but now that I have lost her I have lost the meaning of life.
    Feels helpless and angry that I could not save her.
    I am 30 and I live alone. There are days when I don't know why and how this happened. What should I do next. It feels bad not to think about her. And when I do think about her all I can do is cry.
    I have this wierd pain in my left chest I don't know if this is temporary or will heal with time.
     
  2. Tbstarkin

    Tbstarkin New Member

    I feel your pain i am sadly in a very similar situation. The other way round i lost my mother 20 years ago, and my dad in june. I am 44 and am living alone now. Also really strruggling to cope.