feeling totally lost

will i ever feel safe again?

 

I'm sorry for your loss. It definitely takes a while to not feel like your world has ended but you get stronger with time. I don't think we can actually answer your question for but I can say you're safe here. Its good to talk to people that have gone through the same type loss.

 

Like Sweetcole said that’s a hard question. I hope and pray we all do get to a point where we feel safe again. I lost my husband 4 years ago to a very sudden and massive heart attack. Ron was my world. And I still feel he is. For me, I feel safety in the home Ron and I bought and worked on and raised our family in together. And like Sweetcole said this site is a safe place to share your thoughts and emotions. No judgement ever. We’re all friends. Visit this site often, read and share thoughts and stories.
Sending you hugs and wishing you strength and peace. Robin

 

I am very sorry for your loss.
Chris

 

Tough Q to answer. Depends upon your life, your support system. But I think I understand a bit of what you mean. When you lose someone, you lose a portion of yourself. And with it comes insecurity and doubt if everything will feel ok again. I think with time we all build a bit of strength daily to face life and live life. The void created by the loss makes us nervous. We've lost someone we relied upon. In many cases for years and decades. Humans are creatures of habit and change rattles us. Death imposes extreme change and we all flounder before we find some semblance of balance. You're safe on this site and forum and feel free to share and vent your fears. It's ok to be vulnerable and simply pour your heart out if you need to.