Hello im new here! I lost my fiance suddenly in hospital due to stage 4 cancer. 11 days before his passing i lost my one and only family member, which was my grandmother. I dont have family, I dont have much friends. Im pretty much alone. My finance family is kicking me out the house and want me to move out by end of the month. But I don't even have a place to stay. Life is so cruel right now. The only 2 people I had are now gone. No one will ever love me the way he loved me. Im so lost without him. He passed 1/1/26. Please help me guys. Im so lost. Every time I close my eyes I see and hear how he tragically passed away in front of me. They tried to do cpr but when they got a faint pulse, he pretty passed away on life support. Cpr gives brain damage. Please help me please.
Hi I feel your pain. My mother and I were in a car accident on April 15th 2025 and she passed away and 2 weeks later on May 3rd my only brother passed away of heart failure. We all lived in the same home together and now my house is just empty. I have a few friends but none of them can understand what I'm going through nor help me with what I'm doing with really. I also feel like no one will ever love me like my brother and mother did and I feel like no one will have my back like they did. I miss him so much in this house is so quiet without them I feel like I'm at a standstill and I don't know what to do. I would love to take you that after a year on most of the year that has gotten easier but it hasn't.
Im sooooo sorry to hear that. I just got a pet. It doesnt help much but the love it provided is 5% helpful. Most of all it just keeps you busy. Im sorry for your loss and emptiness. I feel the same way about my finance. No one will have my back or love me the way he did.
I feel like I'm stuck and can't get out of this rut. My mother was my best friend as he was yours I'm sure. My pet has helped me a lot he was part of our family so it feels like I still have a piece of them with me. I hope your new pet brings you so.e comfort.
My wife passed away in August of 2025 from stage 4 ovarian cancer. It snuck up on her and took her in very short time. She was my friend, my soulmate, my lover, and my everything. 38 years of marriage and her helping me to be a better person. In December 2025, my mom passed away, and in March 2026 I lost my mother-in-law. It's been an incredibly hard last 8 months. It's hard to say that it gets better it just gets different. You slowly heal but it takes time. Things will never be the same , it will be different and sometimes difficult. I found a poem by an unknown author that sums it up. It didn’t kill me, but something changed, A piece of me lost, forever estranged. I walked away, yet not the same, A shadowed soul, a quiet flame. That day took part of who I was, Left me searching, without cause. I carry on, but feel the void, A heart once whole, now destroyed. It didn’t end me, but I’m not whole— An echo remains, deep in my soul. I’m here, I breathe, but truth denied— A part of me, that day, quietly died. Author Unknown Just know there are a lot of us that have been through these unfair and difficult times. Part of the healing process is to help others going through the pain. Just know there are a lot of us out there that know what you are going through. And you have our thoughts and prayers.
