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    <title>Loss from Substance Abuse</title>
    <description>Loss from Substance Abuse</description>
    <pubDate>Sun, 19 Apr 2026 17:08:53 -0400</pubDate>
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      <title>Lost my mom to a crack overdose, she was 59</title>
      <pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2026 15:24:56 -0500</pubDate>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (CaliElle)</author>
      <dc:creator>CaliElle</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[It has been almost 2 months and the pain gets worse by the day. After days of her car not leaving the house the neighbors used their emergency key and found her lifeless and decomposing. Days before her passing she had agreed to go to rehab and in exchange I’d pay her bills and mortgage. She seemed onboard. Then she went on a several day binge. She called me the day before her passing under the influence, I was upset. During the call I asked if she wanted to be here for her grandsons and if...<br />
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      <title>Grieving the loss of my ex husband from addiction</title>
      <pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2026 16:11:09 -0500</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.griefincommon.com/connect/threads/grieving-the-loss-of-my-ex-husband-from-addiction.2545/</link>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (Msteele)</author>
      <dc:creator>Msteele</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[My ex husband died of addiction February 2021. We knew each other for more than 20 years. We have a child who is 11. Although we were divorced for a while I still and will always love him. He was my soulmate. Addiction took him from me and everyone else. He got so lost in it for so long he couldn’t find his way out. Ultimately it was up to him but his body and mind just couldn’t bear it any longer. <br />
My nightmare has come true.<br />
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Now I am struggling with complicated feelings that most family...<br />
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      <title>Lost My Brother to a Fentanyl Overdose</title>
      <pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2025 02:22:02 -0400</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.griefincommon.com/connect/threads/lost-my-brother-to-a-fentanyl-overdose.3725/</link>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (ximenamiki)</author>
      <dc:creator>ximenamiki</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[This past November, I lost my older brother to a fentanyl overdose. He was 31. He had an oxy addiction that worsen during the pandemic, escalating to fentanyl use. His substance abuse had started much earlier than the pandemic, but the isolation and the avalanche of legal, financial, and spiritual problems grew heavier. His story ended with him laying on a dirty kitchen floor.<br />
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But before that, he LIVED. Self-proclaimed black sheep of the family. He could bond and connect with anyone from...<br />
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      <title>Lost the love of my life to addiction</title>
      <pubDate>Fri, 08 Nov 2024 00:50:25 -0500</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.griefincommon.com/connect/threads/lost-the-love-of-my-life-to-addiction.2404/</link>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (Avealina)</author>
      <dc:creator>Avealina</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[I have lost the love of my life and he’s also my youngest daughters dad and he was her sisters step dad.....we met back in 2007 and when I laid eyes on him I just knew I could feel it... I was so inlove and so happy being with him... he was my best friend and soulmate... we did so much together and when I think back I start crying cause I realize that we won’t have times like that again.. I won’t see his face anymore... and the pain is beyond painful cause it hurts so bad... he suffered from...<br />
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      <title>Ex husband</title>
      <pubDate>Mon, 08 Jul 2024 18:02:42 -0400</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.griefincommon.com/connect/threads/ex-husband.3707/</link>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (Cel85)</author>
      <dc:creator>Cel85</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[My ex husband passed away a few days ago. He passed away after taking drugs laced with fentanyl. The person who gave it to him left, and the other person called his mom instead of 911. I don&#039;t think he knew it contain fentanyl, but I know he didn&#039;t want to died. He was in and out rehabs and jail every few years. We have 2 daughters and they were not in speaking terms with him. The oldest had told him to stayed away. He had lost her trust, and she mentally couldn&#039;t handle is actions. We...<br />
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      <title>Lost my twin sister</title>
      <pubDate>Fri, 30 Jun 2023 16:42:16 -0400</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.griefincommon.com/connect/threads/lost-my-twin-sister.3303/</link>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (SunflowersOnStilts)</author>
      <dc:creator>SunflowersOnStilts</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[Hello... my name is Natasha.  I&#039;m new to this website. I&#039;ve joined in the hopes of coming out of isolation after the sudden and unexpected loss of my identical twin sister due to medical treatment related problems... Is anyone from Arizona here? Or has anyone else lost a twin? I feel so alone and confused.. it was hard reaching out for help. But here&#039;s to the first step.]]></content:encoded>
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      <title>Loss of a friend via overdose</title>
      <pubDate>Sat, 18 Mar 2023 14:02:03 -0400</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.griefincommon.com/connect/threads/loss-of-a-friend-via-overdose.3218/</link>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (Marcus1)</author>
      <dc:creator>Marcus1</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[Christmas Eve 2021 a close friend of mine relapsed.  She had been clean for several years, when she took the amount of pills she was formerly used to. She died in her sleep.]]></content:encoded>
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      <title>Loss of my daughter to heroin</title>
      <pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2022 02:39:57 -0500</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.griefincommon.com/connect/threads/loss-of-my-daughter-to-heroin.3196/</link>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (Amelia’smom)</author>
      <dc:creator>Amelia’smom</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[Sept of 2017 I got the call every parent dreads. come to the hospital and no information was given. I am a nurse so I know what that means.<br />
My daughter was taken to a nearby hospital after her drug dealer shot her up w heroin after many months of not using. when I got there I had to wait forever to talk to someone, then they called me into the small room where she was, she looked beautiful, peaceful, only like she was asleep. I think it was the first time I’d seen her peaceful. She had so...<br />
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      <title>Lost My Son To Drugs</title>
      <pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2022 20:16:15 -0500</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.griefincommon.com/connect/threads/lost-my-son-to-drugs.3172/</link>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (KisforKodie)</author>
      <dc:creator>KisforKodie</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[It has been over a year and I&#039;m still hurting so bad that it is difficult to function. I&#039;ve lost my will to laugh, or attempt anything that once brought me joy. I&#039;ve been dealing with guilt, blame, shame and I cry all the time. I&#039;ve just starting looking for work because before I didn&#039;t feel I could hold down a job. The people around me have been so cold to what this is like and how frozen your life can become. Never in a million years did I think this would be my life at this age. It is so...<br />
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      <title>Lost my father 2 months ago from a years long battle</title>
      <pubDate>Mon, 17 Oct 2022 20:18:17 -0400</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.griefincommon.com/connect/threads/lost-my-father-2-months-ago-from-a-years-long-battle.3185/</link>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (sampson214)</author>
      <dc:creator>sampson214</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[I am new here. I have tried Facebook grief groups but I think I am looking for something for personal and private. Almost 2 months ago, my sister called me at 11:43am and told me she found our father dead in his room. I love right around the corner so I rushed over. As I was on the phone with 911, I ran downstairs to make sure he was past the point of help. I also had to see him for myself. The first thing I saw was his grey feet hanging off of the bed. He looked so peaceful. His hands were...<br />
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      <title>Loss of my son due to an overdose</title>
      <pubDate>Tue, 20 Sep 2022 08:47:18 -0400</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.griefincommon.com/connect/threads/loss-of-my-son-due-to-an-overdose.2112/</link>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (Johnny's mom)</author>
      <dc:creator>Johnny's mom</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[I lost my 30 year old son to an overdose. He had been battling his opioid addiction for a few years. He had been clean for over a year. He lived with me, and I could see how hard he was trying to better himself. He started following all the rules of our society. He was on parole and was doing everything right. He was  working out, taking classes, cooking, smiling, talking to me, whitening his teeth, and planning for a future.  Not exactly sure what the trigger was. He knew there would be a...<br />
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      <title>Lost my wife 4/16/21 I'm so tired</title>
      <pubDate>Mon, 01 Aug 2022 12:52:51 -0400</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.griefincommon.com/connect/threads/lost-my-wife-4-16-21-im-so-tired.3086/</link>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (Courtneyshuler)</author>
      <dc:creator>Courtneyshuler</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[I have been sober since August 25,2020. My wife and I used together and eventually I couldn&#039;t take that life anymore so I left to go get better. 5 months later after several failed detoxes my wife decided to go to the same rehab I had just graduated from. We got to spend some time together. I got to make amends to her. We loved, hugged, kissed, held each other. She was so excited to get better. She wanted to so bad! She entered the program March 4th and left after Easter. I got the most...<br />
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      <title>Lost new love to overdose</title>
      <pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2022 18:22:50 -0400</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.griefincommon.com/connect/threads/lost-new-love-to-overdose.3133/</link>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (E.M.)</author>
      <dc:creator>E.M.</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[He was so kind and thoughtful and we were planning our future. We shared so much in the short time we had. He relapsed two weeks ago. His father had recently passed and he was struggling more than I knew. After the relapse he was so sorry and was trying so hard. We were texting everyday while he was staying with a friend from aa to regroup. He was sending me pictures of himself at meetings with his aa friends saying he was going to &quot;keep trying until he got it right.&quot; We were sharing...<br />
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      <title>Lost my cousin to heroin</title>
      <pubDate>Fri, 06 May 2022 15:58:50 -0400</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.griefincommon.com/connect/threads/lost-my-cousin-to-heroin.3094/</link>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (ACarl1001)</author>
      <dc:creator>ACarl1001</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[Hi, I&#039;m new here. I recently lost a cousin I was very close to, to heroin. I&#039;m finding it difficult to accept, and difficult to move forward. Just reaching out to kinda talk through this I guess.]]></content:encoded>
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      <title>Lost my youngest child at 38 yrs old fentanyl overdose</title>
      <pubDate>Fri, 29 Apr 2022 03:24:36 -0400</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.griefincommon.com/connect/threads/lost-my-youngest-child-at-38-yrs-old-fentanyl-overdose.2969/</link>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (Dlhagen51)</author>
      <dc:creator>Dlhagen51</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[There is such a hole in my heart and I miss my son]]></content:encoded>
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      <title>Intrusive thoughts</title>
      <pubDate>Wed, 16 Mar 2022 22:56:50 -0400</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.griefincommon.com/connect/threads/intrusive-thoughts.2987/</link>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (SandyMul)</author>
      <dc:creator>SandyMul</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[I’m having a really, really difficult time, 7 years after losing my son Tommy. I still cry very easily, especially when I’m home alone or with my husband. A picture, a song, a movie, or just about anything, can bring me immediately to thinking about him not bring here. Sometimes my thoughts can get kind of morbid, like thinking about him dying alone, or at times I think about how I had handled things when he had relapsed. My regrets are many...and painful. I’m recently disabled and have had...<br />
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      <title>Lost my 22 year old son June 21st from accidental fentanyl overdose</title>
      <pubDate>Mon, 13 Sep 2021 17:37:41 -0400</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.griefincommon.com/connect/threads/lost-my-22-year-old-son-june-21st-from-accidental-fentanyl-overdose.2807/</link>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (Taiga)</author>
      <dc:creator>Taiga</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[He was 22. His name was Joel. Funny, handsome. Sober for 6 months. Thought he was taking Xanax. He died June 21st 2021. My first baby. I have a 19 year old son too. I’m also trying to avoid the grief feelings. I miss him terribly. Died in his sleep. I could tell he’d taken something. He said “no mom, I’m good, just tired.” I watched him lay down &amp; cover up. Feel bad for not doing anything but had seen him that way before. Not since treatment &amp; sobriety though. I’m glad I didn’t know he was...<br />
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      <title>Lost my son in July because of drugs</title>
      <pubDate>Thu, 09 Sep 2021 09:57:28 -0400</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.griefincommon.com/connect/threads/lost-my-son-in-july-because-of-drugs.2839/</link>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (Dlhagen51)</author>
      <dc:creator>Dlhagen51</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[I still can’t believe he’s gone but I know that he’s not suffering any more - but the rest of us are, especially his sister. I hold my breath every time the phone rings because I’m so fearful of what I’m going to hear. I didn’t see this coming especially after spending several days trying to get help for my 37 year old son.  Everything and everybody is in overload and it’s hard to have hope for the rest of us. One of my daughters is in total denial and an adult who also suffers with alcohol...<br />
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      <title>Lost in guilt</title>
      <pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2021 21:31:31 -0400</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.griefincommon.com/connect/threads/lost-in-guilt.946/</link>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (Foreverhis)</author>
      <dc:creator>Foreverhis</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[I lost the love of my life on March 17th. He had been clean almost a year since his last relapse. He inspired and helped so many people.  Everyone thought he was a success story.  I found him unresponsive after apparently using heroin laced with fentanyl.  I was 38 weeks pregnant and he was so excited.  He had never been happier or healthier. He constantly thanked me for the happiest years of his life. <br />
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Now looking back I realize he had been using for over a week before his death. I feel so...<br />
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      <title>Feeling guilty about my relief. It's complicated...</title>
      <pubDate>Sat, 14 Aug 2021 19:50:32 -0400</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.griefincommon.com/connect/threads/feeling-guilty-about-my-relief-its-complicated.2557/</link>
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      <author>invalid@example.com (TISHc)</author>
      <dc:creator>TISHc</dc:creator>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[Complicated &amp; conflicted:<br />
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In November I suddenly lost my husband of 32 years. He was a waxing and waning alcoholic and in September I asked for a separation. It was liberating. But then &quot;Bam&quot; he was gone.<br />
He was driving his truck while severely intoxicated and wrecked. Thankfully no one else was involved. Truly a blessing.<br />
Now I am struggling with the relief of not having to deal with the alcoholism and all that goes with it and guilt because I feel so relived. Also of course, immense grief...<br />
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